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	<title>Comments on: Reason #23: Sexuality</title>
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	<description>A blog for survivors of child sexual abuse and those who love us.  These are the reasons we are the way we are.</description>
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		<title>By: kate1975</title>
		<link>http://reasonsyoushouldntfuckkids.wordpress.com/2008/11/11/reason-23-sexuality/#comment-349</link>
		<dc:creator>kate1975</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 00:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that our sexuality is our primary victim to being abused. Then we end up with abusers in adulthood. Abuse makes it harder to figure out our sexual desires. I wish that there was an easy and quick way to heal all this.

Kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that our sexuality is our primary victim to being abused. Then we end up with abusers in adulthood. Abuse makes it harder to figure out our sexual desires. I wish that there was an easy and quick way to heal all this.</p>
<p>Kate</p>
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		<title>By: 35 Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids: 2008 in Review &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</title>
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		<dc:creator>35 Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids: 2008 in Review &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 12:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] second reason dealt with sex, and it was something I dealt with in Reasons 9, 20, 23, 25,  and 33. Six times this sex thing has fucked me up in adulthood due to the sex thing fucking [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] second reason dealt with sex, and it was something I dealt with in Reasons 9, 20, 23, 25,  and 33. Six times this sex thing has fucked me up in adulthood due to the sex thing fucking [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Reason #64: We Hire Babysitters for Ourselves &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reason #64: We Hire Babysitters for Ourselves &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 13:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] my life, I have only ever met one other person who was as afraid to be alone as I was. When I asked my girlfriend about this woman who was afraid to be alone, my girlfriend said this: &#8220;Oh, yeah, one time her [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] my life, I have only ever met one other person who was as afraid to be alone as I was. When I asked my girlfriend about this woman who was afraid to be alone, my girlfriend said this: &#8220;Oh, yeah, one time her [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Reason #55: Pathetic &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reason #55: Pathetic &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 16:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] few years ago, I used to get home before my mom and girlfriend. All three of us were living together. I guess my work hours ended earlier in the day than their [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] few years ago, I used to get home before my mom and girlfriend. All three of us were living together. I guess my work hours ended earlier in the day than their [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sword Dance Warrior</title>
		<link>http://reasonsyoushouldntfuckkids.wordpress.com/2008/11/11/reason-23-sexuality/#comment-69</link>
		<dc:creator>Sword Dance Warrior</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 07:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m gay, and being a survivor was why it took me so long to stop agreeing to fuck men who wanted me, just because they wanted me, and start being with women like I&#039;m supposed to. It&#039;s all part of being out of touch with what I wanted sexually and emotionally. So I totally get your post, Butterfly, and no offence taken. I&#039;ve been in several support groups for women survivors, as well, and you know what? There are always about 10-15% lesbians or bi women in the group, which is just the same in the general population. I tell you one thing though, I&#039;m quite grateful I&#039;m gay, so I don&#039;t have to sort out normal guy annoyingness/sexism from survivor stuff any more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m gay, and being a survivor was why it took me so long to stop agreeing to fuck men who wanted me, just because they wanted me, and start being with women like I&#8217;m supposed to. It&#8217;s all part of being out of touch with what I wanted sexually and emotionally. So I totally get your post, Butterfly, and no offence taken. I&#8217;ve been in several support groups for women survivors, as well, and you know what? There are always about 10-15% lesbians or bi women in the group, which is just the same in the general population. I tell you one thing though, I&#8217;m quite grateful I&#8217;m gay, so I don&#8217;t have to sort out normal guy annoyingness/sexism from survivor stuff any more.</p>
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		<title>By: Reason #33: Realizations about Sex &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reason #33: Realizations about Sex &#171; Reasons You Shouldn&#8217;t Fuck Kids</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 13:28:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 27, 2008   I mentioned before that I used to be in gay relationships. My first gay relationship lasted for two and a half years, and we were completely in love with [...]</description>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://reasonsyoushouldntfuckkids.wordpress.com/2008/11/11/reason-23-sexuality/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 19:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;I am bi-sexual. I have always liked both sexes. I have known it since I was about 12 or so, when I started looking at boys AND girls. What makes me sick is that my &quot;Dad&quot; still proudly states how his fucking me made me love men! How sick is that? To be honest, I am SURPRISED I even want to have sex with anyone. *SIGH* &lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I am bi-sexual. I have always liked both sexes. I have known it since I was about 12 or so, when I started looking at boys AND girls. What makes me sick is that my &#8220;Dad&#8221; still proudly states how his fucking me made me love men! How sick is that? To be honest, I am SURPRISED I even want to have sex with anyone. *SIGH* </strong></p>
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