Reasons You Shouldn’t Fuck Kids

I am a 35 year old woman living in America. I am a survivor of incest and child sexual abuse at the hands of a babysitter when I was less than five years old (she said “let’s play a game”), my brother when I was 8 (he played the same game, because that same babysitter did the same shit to him), and my father when I was 15 (it wasn’t a game – he wanted a wife).

I am now married, and I have a beautiful sweet son.

I am writing this blog because I am alive, and many other survivors didn’t make it.  This is why you shouldn’t fuck kids.

*A note about the word “fuck”. It’s a word that is not acceptable in mixed company. It’s a word that people use in their homes when ‘outsiders’ cannot hear. This is what happens to child victims of sexual abuse. It happens in secret where no one is supposed to know about it, just like the use of the word ‘fuck’. You can choose to get upset about the wording or you can decide to get upset about the action that is causing me to use the word.