Reasons You Shouldn’t Fuck Kids

Reason #287: Learning to Love Yourself Again
March 30, 2012, 8:22 pm
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I watched this documentary last night about this man who used to be severely overweight. Now he has found his normal weight, and he said he is living a totally different life than the one he used to live when he was fat. He said he used to attend a group, and they told him something very beautiful. As he recalled what they told him, he began to cry in front of the camera. They told him “Let us love you until you learn to love yourself.”

I figure it is good advice for us survivors of child sexual abuse. As sisters and brothers in the war that we survived together, maybe we can accept and learn from each other’s love until we learn to love ourselves again.

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Dear Precious Butterfly,

Let us love you until you learn to love yourself.

Kate & all in our system.

Comment by kate1975

Dear Kate and all in your system,

You wrote the kindest sentence ever uttered to me, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that.

Comment by butterflysblog

Thank you Butterfly. We love you lots. We love you lots because you are a totally worthy and loveable person. We see so many good things in you, ones you cannot see yet. I know it’s not an easy thing to be loved by someone when you don’t know that you deserve it. That too is a part of healing.

Let us love you until you learn to love yourself. Good and healing thoughts to you.


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